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How do you tell your partner that whatever he/she is doing no longer works OR has never worked for you?? 
For Example: Your man just stab,stab,stab then cum & finish OR your girlfriend get her satisfaction then just lie on her back with nothing else for you...OR your partner does something during sex that is TOTALLY ANNOYING but you say nothing ...
Sometimes we want to spare the feelings of our loved ones by not saying  anything about turns us OFF  the most. But how do we actually say something about it? What do we say? When do say it? 
In trying to spare our partners feelings we end up being sexually frustrated which can lead to seeking satisfaction outside of your relationship.  
Communication is KEY. 

Tell us how you communicate for Sexual Gratification...

24 Comments to Sexual Communication:

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Kirk on Monday, April 1, 2013 12:37 PM
Man up...At the end of the day both parties want to be happy. I say lets talk about it, lets work on the solution..
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KPM on Monday, April 1, 2013 12:43 PM
I agree, but not every man is willing to take correction about sex..

Damion on Monday, April 1, 2013 12:47 PM
..well if I can share a feedback and she is not offended that's fine with me. Most women -if not all are inclined to their feelings and by you communicating certain things regarding intercourse they may very well take it personal.
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KPM on Monday, April 1, 2013 12:51 PM
How do u communicate it though? I think feelings get hurt when communication is poor( too ruff)

Kirk on Monday, April 1, 2013 12:52 PM
I'm very curious when it comes dwn to my partners feelings and satisfaction...."I NEED TO KNOW"

Damion on Monday, April 1, 2013 12:57 PM
[KPM]..even if you are very subtle in communicating to your spouse. Image this - You are politely, discreetly, subtly told that your vagina is getting a little bit 'loose'. No matter how its told to're still going feel a way.

KPM on Monday, April 1, 2013 1:32 PM
With regards to looseness...what about asking her if she has heard about KEGEL exercises??? Telling her that you saw on the internet that this exercise can make her cum harder? (It does by the way) Better orgasm for you as well...

Anonymous on Monday, April 1, 2013 12:55 PM
I would just tell him "baby I dont like the way that feels" I would make a recommendation of what would feel better. If he is offended so be it! Telling him is best for both of us, as they say "if you are woth correcting, you are worth keeping"
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KPM on Monday, April 1, 2013 1:34 PM
I open with what feels good & what doesn't...It might "pinch" a little but if your partner loves you it won't be a problem...

Chris on Monday, April 1, 2013 12:57 PM
Well I would definitely want my partner to tell me the honest truth so I can make sure she receives 100 pecent satisfaction. Because trust and believe if does something and It doesn't satisfy me then I wouldn't hesitat to to tell her. She better plz me! Or else....need I say more?
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KPM on Monday, April 1, 2013 1:35 PM

CM on Monday, April 1, 2013 1:05 PM
Just be straight forward but not blunt. It is worse if you keep what is on your mind away from th person because it will come out eventually. Try to do it like over dinner or something. Just try to make it as painless as possible.
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KPM on Monday, April 1, 2013 1:37 PM
Over dinner, even during sex. As long as you are kind when giving the critique...

Chin on Monday, April 1, 2013 4:28 PM
Well we will definitely be uncomfortable with saying something but what can work si to drop hints about what you like or don't like then that will help. Also communication in a relationship is very very important and if both persons really want it to work then they should not be concerned about feelings and just tell him/her what they can and cannot do.
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D. Pryce on Thursday, April 18, 2013 6:46 PM
Be honest and dont hesitate to share any concern you have regarding your sexual the end of the day you will be affected or hurt and be thinking what am i not doing or why did she not say about it and together resolve it.
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